You Lost Your Job. Everyone Tells You to Stay Positive.
But Nobody Asks: How Are You Actually Doing?
You Lost Your Job. Everyone Tells You to Stay Positive.
But Nobody Asks: How Are You Actually Doing?
Job loss isn't just about finding your next role. It's grief: loss of identity, community, routine, and the version of yourself you thought you were. We create witnessed space to process that grief before you're ready to move forward.
When you got laid off, it's likely that advice came immediately from a variety of sources - including our own beliefs! It may have looked like:
Update your LinkedIn
Network aggressively
Apply to 50 jobs this week
Stay positive
Just pivot
But here's what nobody said:
"This is devastating. Your identity just dissolved. You're allowed to grieve."
Job loss triggers genuine grief. You're not just unemployed—you're mourning:
Your professional identity ("I used to be a [job title]... now I'm what?")
Your daily routine (The structure that organized your entire life)
Your work community (Colleagues who suddenly stop responding)
Your sense of purpose (The thing that got you out of bed)
Your financial security (Even with severance, the fear is real)
Everyone expects you to "bounce back." But grief doesn't work that way.
The Paradox: You can't pivot until you acknowledge where you actually are.
Liminal Living offers Job Grieving Circles - facilitated peer support for people experiencing job loss.
What We Offer:
Job Grieving Circles (Group)
45-minute facilitated sessions
up to 8 participants experiencing job loss
Virtual (accessible from anywhere)
Bi-weekly sessions
Free/Donation
Integration Coaching
Personalized grief processing support
60-minute sessions
For those who need deeper individual work
$75-150/session (sliding scale and equitable exchange available)
Job Grief Reflections Workbook
Self-guided 4-Phase framework
Exercises, prompts, and reflection tools
What Job Grieving Circles Are NOT:
❌ Not Career Coaching: We don't teach resume writing or interview prep (you can find that anywhere)
❌ Not Therapy: We're peer support facilitators, not licensed therapists
❌ Not Networking Events: We don't pressure you to "work the room"
❌ Not Toxic Positivity: We won't tell you "everything happens for a reason"
❌ Not a 6-Step System: Grief isn't linear, and we don't pretend it is
What Job Grieving Circles ARE:
✓ Witnessed Space: A place where people actually see your grief without trying to fix it
✓ Peer Support: You're not alone - others are experiencing the same devastation
✓ Emotional Processing: We help you name and work through shame, anger, fear, and loss
✓ Identity Work: We help you separate who you are from what you did for work
✓ Trauma-Informed: We understand that job loss can be genuinely traumatic
✓ Accessible: Sliding scale pricing means money isn't a barrier
This work is for you if:
You were laid off, fired, or your position was eliminated
You voluntarily left your job but grieve the decision
Everyone tells you to "stay positive" but you feel devastated
You refresh your inbox at 2 AM hoping for interview requests
You've applied to hundreds of jobs but can't articulate your value
Friends and former colleagues stopped responding to your messages
You feel like you lost your identity along with your job title
You're exhausted from performing resilience when you feel broken
You know you need emotional support before tactical job search advice
This work welcomes:
All career levels (entry-level to C-suite)
All industries and professions
All identities (we're queer-led and intersectionality-aware)
People who are actively job searching AND people who aren't ready yet
Those experiencing their first layoff and those who've been through this before
You don't need to be "ready" or "healed" to join. You just need to be willing to acknowledge that job loss hurts.
"For the first time since my layoff, I didn't feel alone. Everyone kept telling me to network harder, but nobody acknowledged that I was grieving. This circle gave me permission to feel everything."
"I thought I just needed to update my resume. But I couldn't even write about my experience because I was so angry and ashamed. The circle helped me process those emotions before trying to market myself."
"Marah creates space without trying to fix anyone. That's exactly what I needed - witnesses, not solutions."
Join us for the next Job Grieving Circle or explore other ways we can support you.
📅 Join a Grief Circle: Next session signup here
💬 Book a Free 20-Min Call: Let's see if 1:1 coaching is right for you
📖 Get the Workbook: Coming soon.... Start processing grief on your own timeline